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Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts

Happy as You Want to Be

Almost everyone have heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.

Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke.

One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change', and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change.

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along with well with

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.

To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.

There are several ways by which you can do this.

Being grateful is a great attitude. We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive.

News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.

A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the best medicine'.

Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.

Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.

Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday. Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.

Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive.

Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.

And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Life Mapping: A Vision of Success

Success is more than economic gains, titles, and degrees. Planning for success is about mapping out all the aspects of your life. Similar to a map, you need to define the following details: origin, destination, vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and route.

Origin: Who you are

A map has a starting point. Your origin is who you are right now. Most people when asked to introduce themselves would say, “Hi, I’m Jean and I am a 17-year old, senior highschool student.” It does not tell you about who Jean is; it only tells you her present preoccupation. To gain insights about yourself, you need to look closely at your beliefs, values, and principles aside from your economic, professional, cultural, and civil status. Moreover, you can also reflect on your experiences to give you insights on your good and not-so-good traits, skills, knowledge, strengths, and weaknesses. Upon introspection, Jean realized that she was highly motivated, generous, service-oriented, but impatient. Her inclination was in the biological-medical field. Furthermore, she believed that life must serve a purpose, and that wars were destructive to human dignity.

Destination: A vision of who you want to be

“Who do want to be?” this is your vision. Now it is important that you know yourself so that you would have a clearer idea of who you want to be; and the things you want to change whether they are attitudes, habits, or points of view. If you hardly know yourself, then your vision and targets for the future would also be unclear. Your destination should cover all the aspects of your being: the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. Continuing Jean’s story, after she defined her beliefs, values, and principles in life, she decided that she wanted to have a life dedicated in serving her fellowmen.

Vehicle: Your Mission

A vehicle is the means by which you can reach your destination. It can be analogized to your mission or vocation in life. To a great extent, your mission would depend on what you know about yourself. Bases on Jean’s self-assessment, she decided that she was suited to become a doctor, and that she wanted to become one. Her chosen vocation was a medical doctor. Describing her vision-mission fully: it was to live a life dedicated to serving her fellowmen as a doctor in conflict-areas.

Travel Bag: Your knowledge, skills, and attitude

Food, drinks, medicines, and other travelling necessities are contained in a bag. Applying this concept to your life map, you also bring with you certain knowledge, skills, and attitudes. These determine your competence and help you in attaining your vision. Given such, there is a need for you to assess what knowledge, skills, and attitudes you have at present and what you need to gain along the way. This two-fold assessment will give you insights on your landmarks or measures of success. Jean realized that she needed to gain professional knowledge and skills on medicine so that she could become a doctor. She knew that she was a bit impatient with people so she realized that this was something she wanted to change.

Landmarks and Route: S.M.A.R.T. objectives

Landmarks confirm if you are on the right track while the route determines the travel time. Thus, in planning out your life, you also need to have landmarks and a route. These landmarks are your measures of success. These measures must be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time bound. Thus you cannot set two major landmarks such as earning a master’s degree and a doctorate degree within a period of three years, since the minimum number of years to complete a master’s degree is two years. Going back to Jean as an example, she identified the following landmarks in her life map: completing a bachelor’s degree in biology by the age of 21; completing medicine by the age of 27; earning her specialization in infectious diseases by the age of 30; getting deployed in local public hospitals of their town by the age of 32; and serving as doctor in war-torn areas by the age of 35.

Anticipate Turns, Detours, and Potholes

The purpose of your life map is to minimize hasty and spur-of-the-moment decisions that can make you lose your way. But oftentimes our plans are modified along the way due to some inconveniences, delays, and other situations beyond our control. Like in any path, there are turns, detours, and potholes thus; we must anticipate them and adjust accordingly.

Top Ten Business Mistakes

1. Not Enough Capital
Assessing small business start up costs is tricky. Most business owners project operating costs to the point of breakeven. (The breakeven point is when the daily or monthly income from the business equals the daily or monthly expenses to stay in business.) What start up costs should include is all the costs required to open for business, and all the operating costs to the point of profitability. This means instead of figuring start up costs to the ‘breakeven point,’ the point should be when the owner estimates he or she will be able to get paid the minimum salary required.
Estimating start up costs should include these categories:
•Start Up Purchase Costs: Equipment, furniture, insurance, business licenses, etc.

•Reoccurring Services Costs – utilities, telephones, outsourcing, insurance, business licenses, etc. (Notice that some start up costs are also reoccurring costs.)

•Advertising/Marketing Costs – Here are some of the biggest pitfalls for small business owners. Even big businesses often have no idea how much they will need to spend in advertising dollars to bring in enough business. Most can only estimate this based on experience. .

•Product or Inventory Costs
The purchase and/or financing costs of inventory.

•Holding Costs (of Products or Inventory)
if inventory is required, housing, insuring, and handling inventory can become expensive.


2. Spending Too Much
While this seems to be easy to avoid, this is one of the most common start up mistakes. One distinct advantage of the home based business is low overhead, but many of these business owners buy services they don’t really need, or max out their credit cards on equipment, computers, cell phones, PDAs, copiers, printers, and other gadgets
Always be forced into overhead.
Don’t buy anything unless you know you need it.
3. Lack of Knowledge
Most people do not lack the knowledge about the industry they start a business in, but about business in general. Just because you know your stuff at your job, does not necessarily mean you could succeed on your own.
Leaving a job to start a business even in the same industry means:

•You wear all the hats - While on your job you might be responsible for purchasing, in your business you’ll also have to fill all the other roles such as customer service, human resources, management, custodian, delegator, administrator, file clerk, office manager, payroll administrator, consultant, and CEO.

•The buck stops with you – This one is huge. So many people get overwhelmed quickly in their own business because they did not account for the seemingly boundless obligations. At your job, your true responsibilities and liabilities are limited. Mistakes could be another department’s fault, or when a client sues your employer, even if you were involved, you might have no real personal liability. In your own business, the buck stops with you. You have to answer to every dissatisfied customer and deal with every new challenge.
Define what your daily duties will be and make a list of everything you imagine that will be your responsibility.

•Adherence to Law – You need to know what laws your business is subject to. This includes licensing and permits, employees, insurance requirements, tariffs, taxes, payroll withholdings, record keeping, and more.

There is an enormous amount of information required to operate a business.
•Administrative Techniques – including employee, outsourcing, task assignment, prioritizing, and organization.
•Advertising – types, effectiveness, costs, tracking methods, creation,
•Bookkeeping – record keeping
•Financial Analogy and Forecasting – profit and loss statement and balance sheet interpretation
•Law
•Marketing
•Personnel Management
•Product or Service
•Trends

4. Not Adequately Defining the Market
A small business can easily exhaust all capital in advertising. Whether it’s traditional print ads or pay per click, if the target market is not reached, the mistake could be realized too late.

5. Mismanagement
New small business owners often start without a plan or fail to follow their plan. Learning to prioritize, organize, and improvise can be new to people who have not worked in previous management positions.

6. Not Having Contacts and Services in Place
There is nothing worse than needing a contact for a business transaction, and losing the deal before you can find the help. Having no or poor subcontract services can leave you scrambling to find help. This search alone can be enough to hurt a small business.
When in a pressure situation, many owners take shortcuts, make poor decisions, and choose subpar services.

7. Ineffective Marketing
This is mistake can include inefficient marketing, poor content, ill timed advertising, wrong target market, and overspending, and many more.
Learning your market and how to get business could be the most important aspect. Having more than enough business can compensate for mistakes or shortcomings in other areas.

8. Failing to Rectify Mistakes
Sometimes business owners fail to recognize mistakes, but even worse, when they do spot them, they do nothing. This happens for several reasons.
If the business owner has come from an employment position, many times he or she does not fully grasp that the buck now stops with them. They are used to someone else taking the responsibility. These owners often become immobilized in the face of a blunder, and do nothing. This is where a business mentor can be a lifesaver. Every new business owner should have one or more seasoned business owners to turn to in turbulent waters. Preferably, this person should be a home-based business owner who is or has been in the same or a similar industry. Before you go into business, mentor contacts should be established.

9. Refusing to Delegate
Small business owners are usually ‘take charge’ people. They know their businesses better than anyone else and can do most every job. In the beginning and as their business grows, these owners often retain duties and responsibilities far beneath their capabilities and not in the best health of the business. As if the Captain of the ship refused to give up swabbing the deck, because he felt no one could swab a deck like him, these owners hold on to tasks. Many a business ship has run aground with clean decks.
As a small business owner, you must decide which jobs would be better off delegated or outsourced.
Do not hang on to any duty, which would be better delegated.
Some people might do the job differently than you, but effectively reach the same results.

10. Time Management
Time is money. There are so many distractions in today’s world of business and a home based business is no exception. Few people manage their time effectively. All the conveniences such as cell phones, PDA’s, email, RSS News feeds, the Internet, online meetings, software updates, and online bill pay, can consume your time if not used wisely. The home based business can even face additional interruptions from family and chores.
You have to be self motivating.
When you're an employee, you have a job description and someone is usually telling you what to do, directly or indirectly. You will be in charge of your own actions as a small business owner. You can't just wait for business to happen. Becoming self motivated, the kind of discipline need to run a small business, can be a tough adjustment for people coming from long term employment.
Starting a business takes enormous energy. You can't afford to just coast along, go through the motions, or get burnt out. If you feel like quitting, you can’ give a two week notice and leave, without losing your investment and future income. Many new small business owners cannot even afford vacations or holidays for several years.
You have to be aware.
Again, the employee might not be trained to look for new opportunities. As a business owner, this is imperative. The chance to get new customers, move into a new market, offer a new product or service, could be missed if you’re not aware.

You need to adjust to uncertainty.
As an employee you are pretty much guaranteed a regular paycheck. As an entrepreneur, there's no guarantee.
You will deal with the uncertainty of the fluctuations of the economy, slow accounts receivable, surprise expenses, loss of clients, changes in technology, and trends.
So what’s the good news? You can learn or acquire the skills and traits needed to start and run your own business. You will not have a boss; you will be calling the shots. The successes of your business will belong to you. The freedom to earn in relation to your input can be invigorating.